Navigating University Friendships: Tips for Introverts and Extroverts at McMaster
Happy September first years! Although starting university is an exciting time and, there are a lot of new people and places to get to know, it can be daunting to think about making friends. Whether you consider yourself to be an extrovert or an introvert, McMaster offers a wealth of chances to form deep connections. Regardless of your personality type, here are some tips for making the most out of your time at university.
For Introverts
- Join Study Groups
Joining small study groups with your peers is a good place to start if you find big social events intimidating. These offer a more laid-back and controlled environment for students to interact with one another on common academic interests. As you collaborate on assignments or study for tests, relationships can develop, and conversations feel less forced because of the coursework’s emphasis. Try one of Campus’s 3 libraries (Mills, Thode, and the Health Science Library) to study with friends, or the brand new MSU Hub!
2. Explore Niche Clubs and Societies
Numerous groups at McMaster University are available to suit a range of interests. Consider joining clubs that complement your interests, like the chess club, debate team, or creative writing groups, if you prefer smaller, quieter environments. You can meet others who share your passions through these, and one of the other many clubs at McMaster specialty organizations, which facilitates smoother and more organic talks with peers who share your interests.
3. Engage in Online Communities
Because they can interact with people at their own leisure in digital environments, introverts often flourish there. Before moving to in-person meetings, you can engage in discussions on McMaster’s online forums, social media groups, and discussion boards. If you are hesitant to approach someone in person, this can be a useful starting point to a life-long friendship..
4. Volunteer for Causes You Care About
One intentional and structured way to meet people is through volunteer work. Students at McMaster have many options to participate in community service projects, including peer mentorship, charity events, and environmental activities. Volunteering not only enables you to support a cause but also introduces you to people who share your values.
5. Initiate One-on-One Hangouts
Consider asking one person at a time to hang together if you like more intimate, in-depth relationships. One-on-one encounters, such as going for a stroll or getting coffee after class on campus or in Westdale, a neighborhood right behind campus, can help introverts feel more at ease and provide an opportunity to forge better friendships without the pressure of a group environment.
For Extroverts
- Dive into Campus Events and Activities
There are lots of activities on campus, including sporting events, cultural festivals, themed parties, and celebrations. Seize these chances to the fullest if you’re an extrovert. Social gatherings provide the ideal setting for establishing new acquaintances, and you’ll probably run into other students who share your enthusiasm for doing so.
2. Join Clubs and Organizations
Extroverts frequently flourish in a variety of social contexts. Join several clubs that interest you instead of concentrating on just one. Participating in intermural sports, joining clubs within the McMaster Students Union (MSU), or pursuing artistic endeavors are just a few ways to expand your social circle.
3. Take the Lead in Group Assignments
Extroverts frequently love taking the lead in group initiatives, which are excellent opportunities for networking. Whether it’s planning study sessions, group meetings, or excursions, you can become a key player in uniting your peers! Many upper years, including members of the Macademics team, have created lifelong friendships doing quizzes or group assignments. You too will inevitably build relationships with your peers because of your outgoing personality, which will make others feel at ease.
4. Socialize in Campus Common Areas
Common spaces like the McMaster University Student Centre (MUSC), cafes like The Grind, and study lounges like the MSU Hub are ideal places to strike up conversations with fellow students. Whether you’re waiting for a class or grabbing a snack, these areas provide casual opportunities to introduce yourself and make new friends.
5. Organize Social Mixers or Casual Hangouts
Talking with other students is best done in common areas like the McMaster University Student Centre (MUSC), the new MSU Hub cafes, and study lounges in and out of residence. While enjoying a snack or waiting for a lesson, these spaces offer informal chances to mingle and meet new people.
General Tips for Everyone
- Be Yourself and Stay Authentic
Being yourself is the key to forming lasting friendships, regardless of your personality type — extrovert or introvert. Being genuine will make it easier for you to draw in people who value your uniqueness. Never give in to social pressure to alter who you are or how you act in order to blend in. Everyone has a place in McMaster’s vibrant and varying community!
2. Be Patient with the Process
Friendships might not usually develop right away. It’s critical to allow yourself time to acclimate and socialize with new individuals. If you don’t immediately identify your core group, don’t give up. Through persistent participation in events, attending gatherings and lectures, and exploring new opportunities, you will progressively establish relationships.
3. Be Open to Different Types of Friendships
It’s natural to want to be friends with individuals who are like you but make an effort to be open to connections with people who are different from you in terms of personality, background, or interests. Learning from others with different viewpoints can enhance your university experience by introducing you to things you’ve never done before! University is a time for personal development, so take advantage of it!
4. Step Outside Your Comfort Zone
It’s common to have to move outside of your comfort zone to make friends. It’s crucial to make the first move, whether it’s going to a new event, joining a club, or approaching a classmate. Self-challenge is the catalyst for growth, and McMaster offers a welcoming environment for taking risks.
Conclusion
Whether you’re an extrovert or an introvert, making friends at Mac is an exciting and gratifying experience. Finding what works best for you is important, as is accepting the community’s variety and keeping an open mind to new things. More than just academics, university is about making friends, making memories, and figuring out where you fit in dynamic and welcoming community.
